8/12/2018 0 Comments A Note to myself about self-love
Listen to the audio, (use headphones for better sound), watch the clips. Enjoy! A note to myself about self-love
Loving yourself isn’t just about having confidence or loving how you look in the mirror. It’s definitely a part of it, maybe even the most important part, but it’s not all of it. Loving yourself is about learning to love your failures and your flaws. Your mistakes, your regrets, and learning that they aren’t so bad now, because they made you into the person you are today. Loving yourself is learning to forgive but not forget. Knowing when it’s time to let go and keep moving on with your life because dwelling on the past is only going to keep you from seeing your future. And stop constantly blaming others. It only takes the blame off of you for a little while, but it doesn’t change the situation. Loving yourself is learning how to say sorry-to others- but more importantly, to yourself. Learn to apologize to yourself for being so hard on yourself for things you had no control over, Or for things that you did, and you just messed up. We all mess up sometimes, but learning to love yourself is learning to understand that it's only sometimes, not all the time, and we’ll get better at these things as we grow older and learn. It teaches you empathy; and that even you have your limits, despite how perfect you may think you are or may want to be. Learning how to love yourself may entail getting hurt in the process. You may loose a few friends, have a few bad relationships or just have a really bad experience, And you want to beat yourself up about it over and over again, but learning to love yourself means accepting this terrible phase in life and knowing that it will pass -The pain, the confusion, the regret-it doesn’t last forever. And loving yourself is trying to figure out the real lesson you’re supposed to learn from all of this, not dwell on “What if?” Learning to love yourself is not learning “a better way to love others.” Learning to love yourself is learning to love yourself. All parts of yourself-the good and the bad-and being happy with that person. No regrets, no mistakes. Acceptance; and eventually...happiness. It’s something we all want to achieve-self-love-and something we all need to work at. It may take a while, or you may wake up one day and suddenly feel like your best self. But until then, here’s a gentle reminder on How to Love Myself. Hi guys! Did you enjoy hearing my voice? I hope the file opened for you with no problem. Putting this together was such a struggle but I finally got it up and I’m so excited! I’m trying to get more acquainted with making videos and editing for you guys. I want to keep things interesting on here because as you all know, I can talk (write) all day but sometimes it’s nice to change things up a bit and I thought recording this would be fun. I don’t own any of the images, in case you were wondering. I have them all on my Pinterest account though so follow me on there at MusicManiac and you can see all the stuff I pin, including these photos. I hope you all enjoyed this little bit of prose and Until Next Time! With love, Arianna Song in recording: Hearing-Sleeping At Last
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