12/24/2021 0 Comments End of year catch up!Let’s Talk!
It’s been awhile. But I’m so excited to finish off this new year off strong and now that I finally have some freaking time in my schedule, let’s talk. School going fully back in person this year was such a struggle. Like I think we can all agree that this had to be one of the hardest school semesters, ever. The good news is, I feel a lot better about the direction I want to take my career post grad. I don’t want to speak too much into existence because so much can change and I want to keep everything full of positive vibes and good energy (I don’t want to jinx shit). But fingers crossed that all the hard work and struggle this semester makes it worth it. 🤗🤞🏾 On that note, reading? Egregious. It’s been so hard to find time to read this semester, and even when I did, I feel like the beginning of the year started out so well. We had some stellar reads and then it all went downhill from there. I watched Mina from Mina Reads’ video and she had similar thoughts so I’m going to link her video here. But I’m glad I’m not the only one who felt like the reading vibes were off this year, because I felt like such a slacker. But I’m hopeful that next year will be a much better reading year. 📖 However, I have exactly 8 days to read 3 books by the end of 2021 (because it has to end on an even number). So, the goal is to try and read some novellas so I can get to 110 books by the end of the year. Until the end of December I was trying to read all holiday and sexy santa romances but again, I started off strong and then things went downhill from there. (AKA finals and bad reads). I’m trying not to dnf anymore books but we might have to make a few sacrifices to make my reading goal and also so I can get the blog posts I want up in a timely manner. ⏰ Overall, I just wanted to come on here and spread some positive vibes, maybe talk a little bit more about books and gauge the general thoughts and feelings over this past year and future goals for next year. So I looked up a quizlet with some “We’re Not Really Strangers” questions to get reconnected and then next time, I’ll have some book related questions to go through. So let’s get into it! ~Questions~ What’s One Thing You Hope to Change in the Next Year? I hope to truly open myself up emotionally and literally to new experiences next semester since I'm going abroad to London. I’m forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone and explore everywhere and everywhere; introduce myself to new people, give myself the space to grow without feeling obligated to give more of myself than I have or am willing to share, etc. I’m just really excited to grow next year (specifically next semester) and I hope to see that change by the end of 2022. Even if it’s small. What’s One Lesson that Took You the Longest to Unlearn? (This year) I think it took me a long time to learn that I can’t be everything for everyone. It’s something I’m still trying to learn but recognizing that this year is helping to ease some of the anxiety I’ve been feeling surrounding not being good enough or doing enough for those closest to me. I’m not stretching myself too thin and that’s been nice to go through this year. How Are You Really? Tired, overwhelmed, stressed but also really really happy. All of the negative, tense emotions definitely have to do with planning for going abroad and the details that go along with that, as well as worrying about the upcoming changes. I’m also still figuring life things out, working towards career goals that I'm waiting to hear back from, so waiting sucks. But I’ve also got to spend the most time with friends and create some really beautiful relationships this year that I didn't have before. My support system is as strong as it’s ever been this year and I don't know, I’ve just been feeling really blessed and thankful for the people in my life and the experiences that have opened up to me because I took certain opportunities or chances this year. What’s Been Keeping You Sane Lately? Steven Universe and watching Grey’s Anatomy with my besties. Anyone can fight me on this (and be wrong) but Steven Universe is probably one of the greatest shows of all time and for it to be so openly queer during the time it was streaming? Bye. I’m in love. This show literally got me through my finals. Plus spending quality time on one of the most dramatic shows ever with two of my favorite people has been amazing too. What Would You Tell Your Younger Self and What Have You Learned From This Lesson? I’ve actually been thinking about this question a lot lately and I think I would basically tell her that everything she’s going through will make her even more prepared for the amazing things that are coming her way. I’ve learned that patience really is the key when it comes to life circumstances changing but also, taking advantage of all opportunities as well. I’d also tell her to keep investing in her passions because what she’s doing now will shape who she is and everything she does in the future for the better. So, just hold on, things will get better. ~Closing Thoughts~ Thank you for everyone reading! Especially all the way to the end. Longform writing isn’t as trendy as it once was but those of y'all who love to hear a good ramble, really keep this platform so fun for me to interact with. I wanted to ask these questions because this card game is really so fun and it allows you the time to self reflect and engage with those closest to you in such an intimate way. So much has happened this year that this could be the time to take a pause with a card game like this. Take the time to check-in and reconnect in ways that you didn’t have the time to before if you can. I hope everyone who’s done with school is glad their semester is over with (because I sure as hell am). And I’m wishing you positive vibes, good grades and inspiration for end of year reading goals. I’m determined to reach my reading goal so in order to encourage me… you should probably follow me on my Instagram and Goodreads. 😏 Hehe. It’s always a fun time there (and if you notice that I update Goodreads more than Insta then just mind your business 😜😂). With love, Arianna
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